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Minimalist Couple: Meet My Wife, Amy!

Written by Anthony Ongaro

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After several audience requests and some personal encouragement, my wife Amy joined me for a video! In this one, we discuss how we met, what it was like decluttering as a couple, what inspired our intentional living journey, and Amy introduces herself to the Break the Twitch family.

Many people often ask what to do if a partner isn’t on board with minimalism and the decluttering process. As a minimalist couple with some different opinions, we offer some advice and thoughts on the topic. While being a minimalist couple is rare, that doesn’t mean there aren’t disagreements. It can be difficult, but we have some tips on how to compromise and how to move on to make more progress.

Life gets better, you will be happier, and you’ll have more time to pursue what matters to you. That happiness will inspire others and spark questions as to how you did it. The best way to encourage people is to be living proof of what is possible by owning less stuff. In a sense, this creates a chain reaction that will influence more and more people in your life. Just stick with it, and you’ll eventually get there with the people you love.

I hope you enjoy the video. This is Amy’s first video with me on YouTube, so let’s give her a warm welcome.

Thoughts on The More of Less, by Joshua Becker

Written by Anthony Ongaro

If you’ve been hanging around with me for a while, you’ll know that I am a huge fan of books. I’ve read a wide variety, but typically end up in the nonfiction section. I love learning about the world through different people’s perspectives and sharing my own ideas on what I read.

Every now and then, a book that really hits the nail on the head comes along and changes the way I think of things. Sometimes that change is simply a reinforcement of the way that I already view the world, and sometimes it’s a complete shift all together.

Last week, I received an advance reading copy of The More of Less by Joshua Becker, and have really enjoyed reading through. I can safely say that this book will be an impactful, helpful guide for those seeking to change their lives in a meaningful way.

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Creating Checks Points for Living Well

Written by Anthony Ongaro

Perfectly Even Air and Water

I’ve been thinking a lot about minimalism recently, specifically the idea of living with less stuff and prioritizing experiences. Over the last two years, this philosophy has been incredibly effective in helping Amy and me slowly craft our lives into what we’ve wanted them to be. There are just so many different considerations that it can sometimes be overwhelming to think about whether or not we’ve landed where we should be. 

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How An Early Failure Jumpstarted My Intentional Living Journey

Written by Anthony Ongaro

Michigan Theater

I’ve spent the last week in my hometown of Ann Arbor, Michigan. I’m heading back to Minneapolis today, but I have had a great time visiting family and friends here. I’ve been staying with my parents, in the house where I grew up, which means I’ve spent quite a bit of time sitting in a great deal of my own history.

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Why I Became A Minimalist

Written by Anthony Ongaro

become a minimalist

If you’re new to minimalism or considering becoming a minimalist, it may be helpful to learn about why I became a minimalist and why I continue to use minimalism as  a filter for my life.

Minimalism has become a filter for the decisions I make in my life. Before minimalism, I tried buying happiness through numerous purchases on Amazon, and it didn’t bring me joy (pun intended) to see how much all my purchases added up to over the years. 

Pulling four years of my Amazon purchase history resulted in a rather large number. It was after seeing the total and the same purchase patterns happening over and over that I embraced the idea to become a minimalist. In fact, it’s also the reason behind why I started Break The Twitch. Seeing the “Twitch” of the one-click purchases  made me realize that the Twitch also applied to many other areas of life. 

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The Twitch is not just limited to one-click purchases. Think about checking our phones, think about social media, scrolling through the timelines and endless newsfeeds. The Twitch encompasses the impulse actions that do not align with our long-term vision of health, happiness, and purpose in our lives.

Since embracing minimalism, I’ve seen several significant impacts in my life. Below are some other reasons why I chose to become a minimalist.

Greater Flexibility

Another reason I became a minimalist is because of the greater flexibility that comes with the lifestyle. If you don’t have monthly payments on expensive or luxury things that stretch you beyond what you’re able to reasonably afford, you’ll have more flexibility in life. This flexibility provides you with more leeway in your budget and your schedule to experiment with a life change, try new things, or travel on a whim.

More Space, Less Clutter

Aside from flexibility, I became a minimalist because minimalism creates space. It creates space to find ourselves and what’s important to us. This space results in greater clarity because of clutter’s absence—be it mental, digital, or physical clutter. With greater space, there are fewer things to distract you from what really matters to you. With more space and less clutter, I’ve been able to realize that I love traveling. Before embracing minimalism, travel felt more out of reach and too much of a hassle, along with being more unaffordable. 

I’ve been able to afford to travel more since I became a minimalist. With greater flexibility and space, I’ve been able to take on fantastic opportunities to volunteer my time in other countries that have let me give back in a meaningful way. Those are things I could not have done had I not embraced this lifestyle. 

Less Clothing Maintenance

One thing I’ve been enjoying since becoming a minimalist is how much less time laundry takes. Honestly, after getting rid of about 70% of my clothing, my life has gotten so much easier. I only have to do about two loads per week or so—one load of dark and one load of lights. I fold them up, the clean clothes go into the closet or drawer, and I’m done. 

Before, I would have piles and piles of laundry overflowing the hamper. I found that I was feeling resentful towards giving time to clothing that I didn’t care about. There was this recurring process where I’d end up wearing clothing I didn’t even like once all the clothes I liked were worn and in the dirty laundry pile. Then I’d end up having to wash and take care of loads of laundry consisting of many pieces I didn’t even like, and the overall process was taking too much of my time. 

If you’re interested in ways to declutter your clothing, consider these popular decluttering methods. Courtney Carver also has a fantastic program called Project 333, and I would highly recommend you check it out. It’s a framework for creating a wardrobe that will work well for you. 

Increased Confidence

Yet another reason why I became a minimalist is that through the process, I noticed I was becoming more confident. Now, this was a result that I didn’t expect. It was pretty strange when I started feeling this coming through. As I began getting rid of things around me, I started to realize that I was not attached to those things—that my value had nothing to do with my possessions. 

I grew more confident in deciding which items I needed and which items I could let go. Going through the decluttering process helped me realize that I never needed many of the items in the first place. That I’m fine without those items. 

I genuinely believe that there’s a type of minimalism that works for everyone. It’s normal to feel intimidated when you hear the word minimalism. I often see a visible recoil whenever I say the word to someone in a conversation until we talk more in-depth about it. It’s only after a lengthier discussion that I see an enlightened look or a sense of relief when they learn more about what minimalism can look like. 

When they learn that minimalism is more about the idea that we don’t have to chase the things we don’t want to chase, it becomes a lot less intimidating.  Through minimalism, we can create more flexibility, space, time, and confidence to live a more intentional life. 

Allow Space to Screw It Up

Written by Anthony Ongaro

Meditating on the Beach

Last weekend Amy and I flew out to Los Angeles to attend an event while visiting family and friends. It was a wonderful experience and we particularly enjoyed the 75 degree days leading into the weekend — it was a welcome change from the brutal Minnesota winter. For the most part everything went smoothly and we couldn’t have planned a better trip. On the other hand, I really did not expect this to happen:

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